Each member of a couple has their own unique backstory and understanding of the events that have occurred in their life (more commonly referred to as “baggage”, lol). While you may have many good things in common, it is the way these two different backgrounds interact with each other (outside of your awareness) that causes discord.
We will bring these matters to light in a way that will allow you to form new patterns of interacting. Reclaiming great communication and mutual respect can lead to renewed passion and mutual dedication to the relationship.
You can have a continually happy and thriving relationship.
I work with all relationships, married or not, opposite sex or same sex.
Do you or your partner find yourself saying
- We need help with communication
- I’m alone in this relationship
- He/she doesn’t listen to me
- I don’t feel appreciated
- Everything turns into an argument
- This relationship is barely functioning
- They don’t care about my needs
- What happened to the person I fell in love with?
- I can’t stay in but don’t want to get out
- We've turned into a hostile, angry, competitive couple
- They blame me for everything
- I don’t trust him/her
- I’m not being heard
- Everything is just boring routine now
- I feel ignored
- Everything they say hurts me
- Someone’s withholding sex, communication, availability
- I’m the only one trying
- I don’t even like them anymore
- There's too much finger pointing
- How come they won’t change?
- They don’t have time for me
- We’re not close anymore
- Why am I even in this relationship?
- Why do their parents have so much influence?
- I’ve had enough!
Instead, let's get...
1.
Newfound connection
2.
Ease in communicating
3.
No longer getting triggered
4.
New sense of understanding and cooperation
5.
Returned joy and optimism
